Are you an opinion or feedback thrower?

Are you an opinion or feedback thrower? If so please go ahead and read.

                 Most of us amidst our busy schedule, we voluntarily give our opinion or feedback to others without knowing whether the listener is actually listens to you. Does your opinion count? Certainly NO. Huh, yes certainly no. When your colleague did something great which you never think of and you don’t have enough guts to do that greatness, but still you keep on throwing your opinion about his work. But actually he never listen to your useless feedback (though sometime useful opinion too). I can narrate another example. Which actress marries which celebrity and which political party should have alliance with whom. We don’t have any option to give feedback on these things but still we do. In almost all of these matters, your opinion doesn’t count.

Why don’t you realize, by making such opinions, you throw yourself into unwanted emotional turmoil. There is a difference between a feedback and empty useless opinions. There are areas where your opinion counts and areas where it changes nothing but leaving you disturbed.

You have the freedom to have an opinion. But the question is does your opinion count? Mostly, it doesn't. Don't waste your energy. Focus on what you can influence.

                                                           - Few inputs from 'Frozen thoughts' magazine.

Regards,

Mohan